Be You!

I was looking at some photos on a social network and it was a very interesting look at women and what they present to the world. Sure everyone can do what they want to do but at the same time people don't have to respect you. It's a bit confusing and mixed signals when women dress jump off type but demand to be seen as a wifey type.

It's no doubt about it that men will gawk and whistle and don't forget ask for the phone number. But what do you think that really means? It's disappointing to see women put themselves on display to actually be judged, but they say they don't care what anyone thinks. I have rarely spoken to a woman that does not care how she looks in public. It goes against everything in which a woman is.

The dignity mantle have been dropped by so many women. Sexy doesn't have to be the equivalent of sex and women don't have to look for sale to be sexy. Real men don't mind women leaving themselves to the imagination. Men that really care, don't have to see all of your assets along with the rest of the world. Beauty is not about makeup and the way you dress, beauty is who you are as a person. One day the makeup, the short tight clothes and the super high heels will all be off. What happens then? What's wrong with being you? If you end up in a relationship with someone, wouldn't you want them to love the real you?

People will accept who you are or they won't. But you presenting who you aren't will not keep him nor will it be the truth. You can't find the one for you if your showing them someone else so....Be you.